1. Have a look around our ladies galleries and see how many pretty ladies are waiting for you here! You can see various criteria to make your search most efficient.
2. Register for membership (our membership is of no cost to you!) and get your personal profile and account with secure Login and Password.
3. Purchase the necessary number of credits to start corresponding with the ladies. 1 credit is 1 letter to open or send. In our system you pay only for opening and sending emails to the ladies.
4. Email your lady using your personal mailbox!

• Now you can send letter-messages to ladies even if they do not have a computer! Why wait 6 to 8 weeks for a response by post, when you can have a message translated into Russian and delivered to the lady in a few days?
• Your letter is received by one of our local agencies, which translates your message into Russian and notifies the lady that a message has arrived for her. When the lady receives her message, she can immediately write a response. It is translated into English and forwarded to your own confidential "mailbox" on our server. You simply login to your secure mailbox and read the responses - It's really that simple!

• As you browse our site you will find we have lots and lots of galleries of beautiful ladies from Russia, Ukraine and Belarus. If you ever get 'lost' in the galleries or in the site somewhere, just click on the 'BeMyLady' logo at the top of every page and it will bring you back here!
• We have arranged our galleries in a way in which many gentlemen start their search - By age group, country of origin, most beautiful, etc. Once you have an idea of how many ladies are available, and have browsed some of the profiles, we recommend that you use our search engine to narrow down your list of potential candidates. This search engine is linked direct to our central database held at Anastasia, so it is always right up to date.
• Remember that our ladies get your letters via our speedy email-to-paper system, so you'll not have to wait weeks and weeks for the postal system to deliver your letters and replies - Once you find some ladies that you'd like to start writing letters with, just click on her 'Email Me' link, and get started straight away!

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• Once you're ready to go meet some of the ladies you're talking to, you should consider one of our tours to Ukraine or Russia. Not only can you arrange to meet your chosen ladies, but also attend our famous socials where, typically, we have 7 to 10 ladies present for every man in attendance. If things don't quite work out with ladies you were already writing to, you can be sure that your trip will not be wasted!

Tour Socials - Meet hundreds of ladies!

• If you are travelling from Europe, Australia or the UK, please only select the Land-Only tour when you're booking, and just let us know. We will arrange discounted air travel for you from an airport convenient to you, meeting up with your tour in Russia or Ukraine. This will generally save you some money, as the air-tour prices are based from JFK Airport in New York, USA.
• Once you've gotten friendly with a lady, don't forget to send her some flowers! We can arrange this for you too, but you should be aware of 2 Russian traditions ... Never send a boquet with an even number of flowers - Send 5, 7, 11, 15 etc, as even numbered bunches are reserved for funerals! Don't send a bunch of just yellow flowers either - They're a sign of infidelity!

All of our European team here at BeMyLady, along with our USA partners at Anastasia, and all our local agencies based around Ukraine, Russia and other areas are here to help you. Many of us have been in this business since the early 1990s, and we hope that one day, in the not too distant future, we will be adding your success story to the many thousands of others we have already heard about from gentlemen like you who use our services. We all wish you the best luck in your search for happiness, as you find the woman of your dreams, to whom you will say "Be My Lady!"